Dec 1, 2016
Part 2
Whether you meet new people through social activities with friends, online dating sites and media or clubs, groups and even religious organizations that cater to single and reach all age groups.
One thing we may not be aware of but plays a very important role in dating, interacting and meeting others is our energy. And then there are times and certain people that there is something that gives a reaction; usually not positive but we can't quite put our finger on what exactly it is.
All these are the energy we carry and we can look at our energy as the display although subconscious or even attempted to be hidden as whatever our real agenda is.
So if you are female on a date with a male and although he seems polite, attention and a gentleman something feels "off". Chances are high if this feeling is a response in you something is not as it appears. If there is nothing physical or verbal to evaluate, it can be confusing on what to do next. My guides believe that we should always follow our instinct and if the feeling is that powerful or strong in just feeling a strange or odd energy, make an excuse if he calls and stay away. Of course it's possible it’s just not a good mix and nothing more than that, but it also could be the first sign of a predator, creeper, and many other types that we don't want to become involved with. For males they often make the mistake of talking too much about the past (relationships) and many from the beginning claim they are not looking for anything serious or long term. Yet these may be the same males that call or text the next day to thank you and ask you out again quite soon. So the energy is sometimes or actions more important than the words.
Females tend to be the opposite with their energy, they can come across as needy, clingy and that their only goal is to find someone and find a partner fast. Some are single parents struggling and deserve a loving partner. But a first date giving off that energy or even a second or third can scare even the most stoic man away.
All humans want to be loved, liked, respected and appreciated for their unique traits and talents. None of us want to just fill a need whether that is taking care of someone or providing physical pleasure.
Many clients (more so female) will say to me during their adventures in deliberately seeking and dating that they are NOT giving off that energy and did not bring up anything about wanting to settle down. While that may be true, something about your actions, questions or response is coming on too strong and the male is instinctually the pursuer.
Both parties and this is also applicable to LGBT is to try to change the outlook and the outcome or better yet set aside any major outcome. Instead work on your energy by talking yourself into a place where you are just concerned with the moment, having fun and the experience. We learn more about our own selves dating others than in being alone, and even those that don't work out we still can learn something.
Be prepared for those that may come across as in a rush and be very cautious of that energy. Love is gentle and while we can fall in love at first sight or on one date BOTH feel it and it feels totally natural, not as if we are being pushed. And there are times when it feels or seems the date went great and you never hear from this person again. We have to be prepared for rejection just as we are bound to reject someone along the way.
We are probably not going to change our identity or roles, nor are we going to change our vision for the future. We can however alter or shift it so that we are not sending a message or the energy that is likely to scare someone off before they have had a chance to truly know us and get a feel for how we are.
Also my guides talk about the "3 date rule". Unless there is something concerning or unacceptable if we had a good time with a date but just didn’t "feel it" we should give it 3 dates. Just as we have love at first sight we also experience a physical attraction that is not obvious the first date or two, and suddenly the second or third date, everything changes. Chances are by the third date if you still have absolutely no chemistry it’s not going to work out.
Dating can be fun but it does require that we use good judgment and pay attention. We should watch or be aware of what our energy may be sending or emitting so that we are giving the right message. And we need to then make sure we perceive the other person in the right way, and for both sides nerves haven't got the best of us.
Next things to look for, when it’s time to be logical ~
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