Dec 20, 2019
Use Nature
It is a natural, hormonal, built-in urge for a female to seek a mate and reproduce and set up a home shelter. We can fight it, but it's imbedded and eventually, most of the time, it takes over. Men on the other hand have the urge to breed. That's about all that is imbedded. The woman does the best she can to feel sure the man will help provide a safe, secure mating place to produce and care for the product of breeding (also known as children). But the man does the best he can to make sure he can 'breed' any time he wants.
I truely feel that nature did not build-in anything when it comes to the breeders part of the game. His part of the job is to breed... nothing is built in to the male to urge him to take care of what he just had a nice breeding with. But it is built in to the female who grows that human being inside of her body! If you look at other animal species you see the same thing. The male wants to breed but the females' instincts kick in to have what she needs to raise the family in a safe, food available place.
It is time for women to make changes. Every female child should be expected to learn to take care of herself. She will be expected to have an occupation and be able to support herself. She knows how to hammer a nail and take excellent care of herself under any circumstances. Then if a male comes along and makes the right offer she can then consider the potential mating/breeding side of things.. but not let nature make it the ultimate life goal!
I didn't know these things. I fell in love at 14 and married the potential breeder at 17 and was totally surprised at the birth of a baby girl 10 months later. I had no idea the breeding caused the baby... no idea. But learning that most men just want sex turned to be a very helpful, valuable lesson. I did indeed, after one more baby, figure it all out. I learned to be single and support my babies... and I made good use of the knowledge-of-breeding to bring 'helpful moments' into my life.
...Including the night I drove to several bars to see if anyone was hiring and was stopped by a cop as I pulled up in front of my home. I stood there looking pretty holding my large, puffy kitty while complaining about needing a job. I swear this is true... I was hired as a police matron for the city the very next day. It turned out the real reason behind the hiring was the Chief of Police thought it was very possible he would have a chance of breeding with me. I was intelligent and excited about the job offer and did very well... for about a year..then the Chief realized I was not going to breed so I was invited to leave. But by that time I had an amazing amount of experience and inside information about more things than anyone can imagine.
Then, what about the night the drunk off-duty county sheriff showed up at my house and said he had someone drop him off at my place because he wanted to 'spend time with me'. A nice way of saying he had breeding in mind. He apologized that even though he was married with three kids, had a house in the nice section of town, and only had one testicle, he was still a very good breeder. We sat and talked for awhile then I asked him if he was ready to go home. He grinned, got in my car and I dropped him off a block from his house. For the next ten years I never worried about anything. My best friend was a sheriff. And about the Chief of Police? A few years later I helped the mayor decide to send this jerk down the road... No breeding involved.
Save the information, ladies, it will always come in handy without ever having to give in to the offer of breeding. Life is changing. Learn to have confidence, and how to say no without hard feelings. Nature may cause you to seek a partner, but life allows you to take your time and choose one after you have reached your best sense of self and realize that breeding IS a choice. Enjoy the process to your best self.
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