Jun 3, 2017
It’s June, the traditional month for weddings. In this article from mom.me we learn that each sign of the Zodiac has its own problems in life partnerships. In order to not bring them into marriage, follow the suggestions listed here for your sun sign. If you know your Moon and Rising signs, read those suggestions and synthesize them into a better relationship.
Never Do This And You'll Have A Long And Happy Marriage
Marriages and partnerships are hard. Being in a long-term committed relationship takes work. There has to be compromise and understanding for couples to last, and sometimes our unique personalities can clash, even when we don't want them to. Find out the one unbreakable rule your sign needs to follow in order to keep your relationship in the sweet spot.
ARIES March 21 - April 19
Don't be so demanding
High expectations can sabotage even the best relationships. Aries expects a lot from herself and from the ones she loves, making it all too easy for her to slip into dictator mode. In order to keep the peace and her partner happy, this ram sign needs to tone down her top shelf requirements and be more appreciative of the efforts, not just the outcomes.
TAURUS April 20 - May 20
Don't shut out your partner
Taurus has two modes: happy or "I'll cut you." When they get to their breaking point, they tend to close the doors of communication and avoid dealing with issues (unless someone has hurt their family members; then they're out for blood). This leaves little room for working out problems with their partners. Instead of distancing themselves, they need to be present and available to get through the inevitable hard times.
GEMINI May 21 - June 20
Don't treat people like they're dumb
Gemini is smart and they know it. The problem is that they're also impatient with others and get easily irritated when people aren't on their same wavelength. They may develop a nasty habit of talking down to their partners when they're in a bad mood. This can make their significant other lose all interest in trying to fix their problems, which is big trouble for any relationship.
CANCER June 21 - July 22
Don't withdraw from intimacy
One of Cancer's first defense mechanisms is pulling away from their partner when they don't feel appreciated or respected. The problem is that Cancer is incredibly sensitive and easily incensed, so they often close themselves off to love, confusing their partner and making them feel unwanted in the process. A marriage is strengthened by intimacy, and avoiding it can lead to much bigger problems that are harder to fix.
LEO July 23 - August 22
Don't treat your partner like a child
Leo is used to wearing the pants in their families and careers, so their marriages are no different. Being the boss can be empowering, but not so much for a partner who feels like they are being bossed around. Leo needs to make every effort to treat their partner like an equal to avoid conflicts that can create unhappiness in a marriage.
VIRGO August 23 - September 22
Don't act like you're the only one with feelings
Virgo has a good heart and can be extra affectionate (when they're in a good mood). However, when they're upset with their partner, they tend to forget that they aren't the only ones with feelings. That emotional narcissism can leave their partners feeling neglected and unimportant, which creates further tension and animosity in a relationship.
LIBRA September 23 - October 22
Don't hold a grudge
Libra has a hard time letting mistakes go, and will be upset about any wrongdoing by their partner for a long time (or until their partner has sufficiently groveled). It's important Libra remembers that everyone, including them, is flawed and prone to mess up now and then. Forgiveness creates space for growth and future happiness.
SCORPIO October 23 - November 22
Don't play the victim
Scorpio is good at minimizing their contribution to problems in their relationship while simultaneously pointing the finger at their partner. The difficulty is that Scorpio actually believes they're innocent, which obviously frustrates their always-blamed-for-everything partner. This feisty sign needs to remember that relationships always take two people, and both are responsible for whatever problems arise in their marriage.
SAGITTARIUS November 23 - December 21
Don't hold back how you really feel
While Sagittarius is notoriously blunt about their thoughts, when it comes to matters of the heart, they struggle to say what they're feeling inside. The closer they are to someone, the harder it is for Sagittarius to open up and share their emotions. A healthy, happy relationship needs open communication and honesty, so even though it may be hard, this archer sign needs to speak up.
CAPRICORN December 22 - January 18
Don't put other obligations before your relationship
Capricorn likes routine, and once they're past the wooing stage of a relationship, they're notoriously bad at showing affection or making their partner feel like a priority. Romantic dates may be interrupted by texts and emails, and dates are often missed because Capricorn sucks at putting their partner first. Unless this sea-goat wants to risk losing their significant other, they need to give them committed time and attention on a regular basis.
AQUARIUS January 19 - February 18
Don't be unwilling to change your bad habits
Aquarius likes having the freedom to be exactly how they are. This means they're also the least likely in the zodiac to work on themselves. It is important that Aquarius understands everyone in a relationship has to grow and change somewhat. Without sacrificing their individuality, they can give a little and make an effort to make their partners happy by self-correcting, now and then.
PISCES February 19 - March 20
Don't compare your relationship
Pisces wants what's best for everyone, but often they take that idea of "best" from carefully observing other people, leading them down the dark and dangerous road of personal and romantic comparisons. This fish sign needs to learn to go with the flow and understand that no relationship is as perfect as it seems. As long as they spend time investing in the happiness of their own relationship, how happy other people are won't matter.
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